Khong gian rieng trong doi song vo chong
 doi luc nhung nguoi chong cung can mot khong gian rieng ngay trong chinh ngoi nha cua minh
Khi Vicki va Brian Meldrum mua can nha dau tien o Cleveland cach day bon nam, hai vo chong thoa thuan voi nhau: vo co the tuy thich trang hoang va bay tri phan con lai cua can nha co dien tich 335m2 the nao cung duoc, nhung tang ham 3mx4,5m thuoc ve quyen su dung cua chong.
Toi trang tri cho can phong nay bang nhung ky vat the thao ma vo toi chac han chang bao gio cho toi lam tuong tu o bat ky cho nao khac trong nha". Noi do con la “thanh dia dan ong” ma Brian co the tu do xem cac chuong trinh the thao lien tuc hay choi tro Xboy games voi dam ban dan ong cua minh.
"Khi ban be cua anh ghé choi, ho se xuong tang ham” - Vicki noi.
Brian chua trong khong gian rieng cua anh hang trieu thu, ke ca mot chiec tivi 32 inch man hinh phang, cac poster phim, mot chiec dan guitar, mot chiec xe dap va mot it ky vat cua gia dinh chang han nhu chiec cup vo dich anh da gianh duoc trong cuoc thi dau golf tu thien de tuong nho nguoi cha da qua co.
Khong gian rieng cho chong hay vo mang lai loi ich gi cho hon nhan?
"Thoi gian rieng tu cua moi nguoi rat quan trong trong doi song hon nhan" - Steve Brody, mot chuyen gia ve hon nhan gia dinh, phat bieu. "Moi quan he ben vung phai vua than thiet gan gui, dong thoi phai bao dam tinh doc lap. Kieu “phong danh cho dan ong” nhu cua Brian la mot moi cua the ky 21 xay dung dua tren suy nghi tren.
Hay thoa thuan voi nhau de quan he hon nhan hai hoa hon:
Nhieu ba vo than phien rang chong ho luon dan mat vao chiec may vi tinh va chang chu y gi den su hien dien cua vo minh. Trong cac truong hop nhu vay, kieu “phong danh cho dan ong” co the hai nhieu hon loi vi no gia tang khoang cach, tao them rao chan giua hai vo chong.
Viec chia se thoi gian cung nhau hay nen co nhung khoanh khac rieng tu qua la mot cau hoi kho tim duoc loi giai dap.
"Vo toi cam thay toi that dien ro khi bo ra sau gio dong ho lien tuc de xem thi dau golf , nhung nguoc lai, toi thay viec co ay bo ra hang gio nhu the de theo dõi chuong trinh “Sieu mau the he moi" cua My cung chang kém phan ngo ngan” - Brian Meldrum phat bieu.
Hai vo chong da tim cach de hoa giai y thich xem tivi cua minh. “Anh ay co khong gian cua anh ay, va toi co khong gian rieng cua toi. dieu ay giup cuoc song hon nhan cua chung toi hai hoa hon” - Vicky tho lo.
“Phong danh cho dan ong” cung co qui tac rieng:
"Ban thuong nghe cac ong chong than phien rang khi ho dang theo dõi chuong trinh giai tri tren truyen hinh, vo ho bong xuat hien va bat dau ke le nay kia” - Brody bao.
Sal, mot nhac si nghiep du, treo ban “phu nu xin mien vao” tren cua can phong kieu nay cua anh. Trong khi do, de to ra ton trong nguoi dan ong, Brody de nghi qui ba truoc khi vao nen gõ cua va bao dong truoc bang cau hoi “Bay gio em/con vao duoc khong anh?”.
Phu nu cung co khong gian rieng cho minh:
"Vo toi de rat nhieu do khau va trong phong lam viec cua co ay va co ay thich may va ma khong bi ai quay ray. Toi nghi la ai trong chung ta cung co nhu cau ve mot khong gian rieng tu nhu the” - Brody noi.
Vicki Meldrum cung vay. de khong bi uoc mo nang cap “gian phong danh cho dan ong” cua chong qua mat (lap dat them ban bida, quay bar!), co da bat tay vao thiet ke mot can phong danh cho chinh minh.
"Toi se co mot khu vuc danh cho viec trang diem va thu trang phuc. Toi muon co mot tu ban phan, mot ban trang diem. Toi muon co moi vat dung gay an tuong nhat".
posted on: 2008-05-07 11:13:19
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